Contact us
For help, account deletion, privacy requests, or reporting, email us. We usually reply within 1–2 business days.
Include the email address on your account and anything that helps us understand the issue. We may need to verify your account before acting on a request.
Delete your account
- Open the app and go to
You › Settings › Delete account.
- You do not need to contact support. That screen is the whole process.
- Deletion is scheduled 30 days out, so an accidental tap is reversible: sign in again before the date and the request is cancelled.
- After that period your account information is removed or de-identified as described in our Privacy Policy. Some information may be retained where the law requires it, or where needed for safety, fraud prevention, or dispute resolution.
Notes, tables, and Talk Cards
- A note is a piece of writing you publish under a subject. You can edit or delete it from the note itself.
- A table is a conversation between two members. Invitations can be declined, and either side can leave.
- A Talk Card is written only after a table ends, and only when both members approve it. Either member can withdraw it afterwards, and it disappears from the feed.
- Talk Cards are stored on your device. They are not synced to another phone, and deleting the app removes them.
Report and block
- Report or block a member from their profile, or from the menu on any note or reply.
- Blocking asks for confirmation. It is mutual: neither of you sees the other's notes, replies, or profile, and existing conversations are closed.
- You can review and undo blocks under
You › Settings › Blocked members, and track your own reports under My reports.
- Our team reviews every report. Do not harass, threaten, or pressure other members. Accounts that do are removed.
Your content and your data
- You can delete any note you have written, withdraw a Talk Card, and close a table at any time.
- Coterie is for adults 18 and over. We ask for a date of birth before you see anything, and we do not keep the full date.
- We do not show follower counts, online status, or distance. There is no way to browse people the way you browse posts.
- Notifications are limited to replies, invitations, and Talk Card approvals. You can turn them off in
You › Settings.
Privacy requests
Depending on where you live, you may have the right to access, correct, or delete your personal information, or to opt out of its sale or sharing. Email us at feedback@coterietie.com.
See the Privacy Policy for details, including rights for California residents under the CCPA/CPRA.
Something not working?
Tell us what you were doing, what you expected, and what happened instead. If you can, include your device model, the iOS version, and the app version from You › Settings › Version. A screenshot helps more than a paragraph.
For anything urgent — a safety concern, or content that should not be visible — say so in the subject line and we will look at it first.